SELF BODY SHAMING AS AFFECTS OUR SEX LIVES
This very psychologically damaging social phenomenon is on the rise. Let me start by explaining what "SELF BODY SHAMING" means for clearer understanding of this write up. Self Body Shaming is when one gets uncomfortable with a part or whole of one's external body features. This is an act that is usually influenced by the condemnation/mockery of one's external body features by other persons ( Body Shaming ), whereby, one's breasts, bums, for example are condemned for either being too big or too small. Another scenario is where one is being condemned for either inclining towards plus size or very slim size category of human body sizes.
Relating this write up to sex, which was my initial aim, a lot of people gradually begin to get uncomfortable with all or specific parts of their bodies and by extension this affects them when they engage in sex with a lover or sex mate. They get withdrawn, shy, inhibited etc and this affects the quality of the sex offered. The truth is that the way one's partner appreciates one's body especially during sex, largely depends on how one appreciates one's body!
There are many factors that contribute to one body shamming oneself.
1) SOCIETAL STEREOTYPING:-
People tend to body shame others because of the standards the society has subconsciously imposed bodily was not met! For example, ladies with tight, lithe, runway model body physique and ladies with curvy slightly chubby physique are considered to be the most beautiful and appealing. For the men, it's erroneously perceived that if a man does not have a dick above 7 inches or more with sizable girth, he is not worthy of being called a man (the deceptive world of porn highlights this). The truth is that these societal stereotyping are all fallacies and unfounded. People should not body sham others. We were all created differently and we are all beautiful in God's eyes 👀! Do not let anyone cow you down with societal stereotyping. Always lift your shoulders high and have love and confidence in your body. With such spirit, your partner would adore you more because you have taught him or her how to love you subconsciously! If at all you feel a little awkward about probably your growing weight, just hit the gym or work out with aerobics in your personal space. Routine exercises helps tone up the body. Guys, love your penises. There is always a lady who adores that your penis size the way it is. Most ladies do not really feel comfortable with big penis sizes. If you have quick ejaculation issues, issues of sustaining erection, seek for professional help. My agency prepares a combination of Asian and African secrets, administered in a three (3) months therapy! We talk cure not managing of the situation. If you set your soul free, you will turn your sex life around by no longer being shy and inhibited, thereby enjoying sex and enjoying great orgasms.
People tend to body shame others because of the standards the society has subconsciously imposed bodily was not met! For example, ladies with tight, lithe, runway model body physique and ladies with curvy slightly chubby physique are considered to be the most beautiful and appealing. For the men, it's erroneously perceived that if a man does not have a dick above 7 inches or more with sizable girth, he is not worthy of being called a man (the deceptive world of porn highlights this). The truth is that these societal stereotyping are all fallacies and unfounded. People should not body sham others. We were all created differently and we are all beautiful in God's eyes 👀! Do not let anyone cow you down with societal stereotyping. Always lift your shoulders high and have love and confidence in your body. With such spirit, your partner would adore you more because you have taught him or her how to love you subconsciously! If at all you feel a little awkward about probably your growing weight, just hit the gym or work out with aerobics in your personal space. Routine exercises helps tone up the body. Guys, love your penises. There is always a lady who adores that your penis size the way it is. Most ladies do not really feel comfortable with big penis sizes. If you have quick ejaculation issues, issues of sustaining erection, seek for professional help. My agency prepares a combination of Asian and African secrets, administered in a three (3) months therapy! We talk cure not managing of the situation. If you set your soul free, you will turn your sex life around by no longer being shy and inhibited, thereby enjoying sex and enjoying great orgasms.
2) SELF STEREOTYPING:-
This kind of stereotyping is the opposite of the type mentioned above. This is a mental condition mostly influenced by the previous type mentioned which is the societal stereotyping and negative narcist tendencies. This is called SELF BODY SHAMING!
This is mentally strenuous and leaves the person constantly worried. This overtime, translates into a very critical psychological issue. Takes away peace from the person who inclines towards this tendency.
Those who exhibit such tendency, worry over breasts size, hip/bum size, penis size, overall body figure/shape even facial looks.
IN CONCLUSION:-
Body Shaming, whether self or societal is very wrong. Please, let us join hands in ridding our society of this very damaging sociological phenomenon. This phenomenon affects the quality of sex sessions. Those that incline towards SELF BODY SHAMING suffer inhibited sex, unnecessary worry about what their sexual partner thinks of them, sexual shyness, vagina dryness / weak erection / quick or lack ejaculation because of worry or/and disinterest during sexual intercourse. Ladies rarely reach their peak (orgasm) during sexual intercourse. The sexual partners of people that incline towards this tendency, suffer lack of sexual satisfaction, sexual frustrations and resultant break-up from such unpleasant relationships.
It's imperative that we shun this negative sociological phenomenon, look beyond our body flaws (no one is perfect), accept ourselves as we are (there are things we can not change) or lovingly improve our bodies where possible.
Regular exercises, good body and
environmental hygiene, enough sleep, healthy dietary / eating patterns, no heavy meals beyond 6pm even light late snacks beyond 8pm, improving our mental health by reading & avoiding negative vibes, etc. go a long way in preventing us from inclining towards SELF BODY SHAMMING!
If you have sexual issues, please consult a professional immediately. In Ray's Sensual Calls Agency (the agency responsible for this Blog), we handle various SEXUAL issues relating to VAGINAL DRYNESS & SORENESS , FRIGIDITY in bed in WOMEN, WEAK ERECTION, QUICK EJACULATION, etc. with only natural ingredients and safe therapies! Please, we treat sexual diseases and conditions but we do not handle enlargement of breasts, hips, bums, penises because there are some things better left as they are in other to prevent incurring issues like cancers, dysfunction, etc. in the near or far future. We care about humanity. This is our calling. Even our HIPS, BUMS AND BREASTS MASSAGE THERAPY is done naturally with active natural ingredients and physical therapies to improve the quality and texture of these body parts mentioned. Note: not breasts that have already fallen flat. We talk of firm or semi-firm breasts. We help increase the life-span and have them last longer before bowing finally to nature ( falling ) at a well-advaced age!
Foreign Clients should note that we can also attend to them virtually but if our Homeopathic Medicines should be included in the treatment or therapy, we would import them into your city.
Thank you for reading this write up. If you have any comments or critique, please, responsibly drop them below and also on our social media platforms
This kind of stereotyping is the opposite of the type mentioned above. This is a mental condition mostly influenced by the previous type mentioned which is the societal stereotyping and negative narcist tendencies. This is called SELF BODY SHAMING!
This is mentally strenuous and leaves the person constantly worried. This overtime, translates into a very critical psychological issue. Takes away peace from the person who inclines towards this tendency.
Those who exhibit such tendency, worry over breasts size, hip/bum size, penis size, overall body figure/shape even facial looks.
IN CONCLUSION:-
Body Shaming, whether self or societal is very wrong. Please, let us join hands in ridding our society of this very damaging sociological phenomenon. This phenomenon affects the quality of sex sessions. Those that incline towards SELF BODY SHAMING suffer inhibited sex, unnecessary worry about what their sexual partner thinks of them, sexual shyness, vagina dryness / weak erection / quick or lack ejaculation because of worry or/and disinterest during sexual intercourse. Ladies rarely reach their peak (orgasm) during sexual intercourse. The sexual partners of people that incline towards this tendency, suffer lack of sexual satisfaction, sexual frustrations and resultant break-up from such unpleasant relationships.
It's imperative that we shun this negative sociological phenomenon, look beyond our body flaws (no one is perfect), accept ourselves as we are (there are things we can not change) or lovingly improve our bodies where possible.
Regular exercises, good body and
If you have sexual issues, please consult a professional immediately. In Ray's Sensual Calls Agency (the agency responsible for this Blog), we handle various SEXUAL issues relating to VAGINAL DRYNESS & SORENESS , FRIGIDITY in bed in WOMEN, WEAK ERECTION, QUICK EJACULATION, etc. with only natural ingredients and safe therapies! Please, we treat sexual diseases and conditions but we do not handle enlargement of breasts, hips, bums, penises because there are some things better left as they are in other to prevent incurring issues like cancers, dysfunction, etc. in the near or far future. We care about humanity. This is our calling. Even our HIPS, BUMS AND BREASTS MASSAGE THERAPY is done naturally with active natural ingredients and physical therapies to improve the quality and texture of these body parts mentioned. Note: not breasts that have already fallen flat. We talk of firm or semi-firm breasts. We help increase the life-span and have them last longer before bowing finally to nature ( falling ) at a well-advaced age!
Foreign Clients should note that we can also attend to them virtually but if our Homeopathic Medicines should be included in the treatment or therapy, we would import them into your city.
Thank you for reading this write up. If you have any comments or critique, please, responsibly drop them below and also on our social media platforms
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I am Dr. Ray, an Asian-Trained Masseur (Male Massage Therapist), Homeopathic Physiotherapist, Sex Therapist, Couples Intimacy Coach and Homeopathic Medicines Dr.
I am also the CEO of Ray’s Sensual Calls Spa – A leading Mobile Spa, Adult Entertainment and Leisure Outfit and Sex Clinics (Virtual and Physical for couples and individuals who are facing Sexual Wellness Challenges) that has carved her niché in the Adult Lifestyle and Leisure Industry in major cities of Nigeria and Ghana!
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